Komunikasi Keluarga Berdasarkan Uslub Nabi SAW

Abu Dzar Ahmad, Mohd Arif Nazri

Abstract


Komunikasi Keluarga Berdasarkan Uslub Nabi SAW

 

Abstrak

Kehebatan uslub atau pendekatan baginda nabi SAW berkomunikasi dengan para sahabat amat wajar dicontohi remaja dan ibu bapa masa kini. Pelbagai elemen unggul yang baginda terapkan dalam komunikasi menjadikan setiap tutur kata baginda berkesan dan memiliki mesej-mesej tertentu yang perlu diteladani. Realiti hari ini para remaja khususnya gagal memanfaatkan contoh agung tersebut telah mengundang pelbagai masalah keruntuhan akhlak. Penggunaan kata-kata kesat, tengking-menengking melatari komunikasi remaja dan persekitarannya diparahkan lagi dengan keterlibatan mereka dalam jenayah moral merupakan bukti kukuh kegagalan ini. Statistik kegiatan jenayah yang berlaku melibatkan pelajar sekolah menengah meningkat daripada 360 orang pelajar pada tahun 2012 kepada 540 orang pada tahun berikutnya. Angka ini menunjukkan bahawa penglibatan remaja dalam gejala sosial amat membimbangkan pelbagai pihak. Justeru, kajian ini bertujuan mengkaji dan mengenal pasti nilai-nilai uslub baginda berkomunikasi dengan para sahabat dan menganalisis pendekatan hadith tersebut dapat menangani masalah komunikasi di samping membina kualiti remaja berkomunikasi. Kajian ini menggunakan pendekatan kualitatif berbentuk analisis kandungan secara tematik, deduktif dan deskriptif. Kajian menemui beberapa tema uslub komunikasi di dalam hadith tersebut berdasarkan pelbagai pendekatan baginda berkomunikasi dengan para sahabat dengan gaya bahasa yang mendidik. Hasil kajian mendapati bahawa intipati uslub baginda dapat menghidupkan suasana keharmonian komunikasi remaja, maka ibu bapa khususnya perlu memulakan peranan tersebut ketika remaja di awal usia. Implikasi kajian ini mendapati bahawa semua pihak bertanggungjawab terutama pihak keluarga malah menyedarkan masyarakat tentang Islam merupakan agama komunikasi. Oleh itu, menampilkan komunikasi remaja mencontohi uslub baginda dapat melahirkan remaja yang berakhlak mulia, berkualiti, beretika dan berintegriti dalam pertuturan sekali gus mengurangkan risiko mereka terus terjebak dengan permasalahan komunikasi.

Kata Kunci: Uslub Nabi SAW, masalah komunikasi, ibu bapa, remaja.

 

Abstract

The remarkable uslub or approach by prophet Muhammad PBUH in communicating with the companions seemly to be emulated by teenagers and their parents nowadays. Many vital elements have been applied by prophet Muhammad PBUH in his communication made all of his speech become effective and contained messages that should be emulates. The reality of today’s youth in particular failed to take advantage of those great examples have invited various issues of moral decadence. The use of abusive language, shouting amongst them which occur in their communication and environment has compounded with their involvement into moral and social crime is a concrete evidence of this failure. The statistic of crimes involving secondary school students has increased from 360 students in 2012 to 540 in the following years. Hence, this study aims to examine the values of the prophetic communication approach with his companions and analysing the communication traditions of the Prophet for the solutions of communication problems facing by the teenagers. This analysis is important to the quality life of teenagers. This study applies qualitative method based on thematic content analysis, deductive and descriptive approaches. The study finds that the essence of the prophetic communication enhances a harmonious communication culture among teenagers. It is a role of parents to cultivate the values of communication among the teenagers from the early age.  The study suggests all responsible parties to participate in promoting the prophetic values of communication in individual Muslim life as well as Islam is religion of communication. Realization of the prophetic approach of communication is important as it will enhance the moral quality and integrity of teenagers and prevent them from the problem of social ills especially in the aspect of communication.

Keywords: Way of prophet PBUH, communication problems, parents, teenagers.


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