THE FUNCTIONS OF CONSULTATION IN STRENGTHENING THE RELATIONSHIP OF COUPLES WITH MARITAL PROBLEMS
Fungsi Rundingcara bagi Mengukuhkan Hubungan Pasangan Bermasalah dalam Perkahwinan
Abstract
Relationship problems that arise in marriage can make couples more understanding with each other. It also can make couples to end the marriage in divorce. There are a variety of relationship problems in the marriage that contributes to the rise in the divorce rate. Divorce is an instant solution that can end the relationship problems in marriage. However, it cannot break up the relationship between family-in-law and children. Almost all married couples intend to keep their relationship strong and healthy. As a result, the State Islamic Religious Departments in Malaysia established the Family Consultation Unit as a medium that can help couples with marital problems. The paper aims to analyse the functions of consultation in strengthening the relationships of couples with marital problems. A descriptive research was chosen as a research design in this study. Data were collected through document analysis, namely the Official Website of the Federal Territories Islamic Religious Department and the research reports on the consultation in marriage. Data were analysed using a descriptive approach. The results of the study show that the consultation at the Federal Territories Islamic Religious Department has 14 functions. Of 14 functions, five functions for consultation, and nine functions for the family development programme. As a whole, the functions of the consultation at the Federal Territories Islamic Religious Department is an intervention for husband and wife problems in marriage, significantly to strengthen the relationships in marriage and avoid divorce. These 14 functions of consultation have given an impact on the development of the family institution significantly to strengthen the relationships in marriage.Keywords : Consultation, function of consultation, relationship problems, marriage, procedure
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